The Earthy

Keywords:

Connections, communication, compromise

Tarot Card Coordinate: Page of Swords

Advice:

Communication is a very important aspect of any type of relationship. The Earthy wants to remind us that we must communicate with those around us. It's very easy to misinterpret something if the parties involved do not communicate with each other. This could lead to unnecessary confusion and even anger. When faced with a situation, The Earthy advises us to talk it through and come to a compromise. Like The Earthy card, communication, when used right, can be a very powerful tool.

Warnings:
Ignoring a situation will only allow it to fester. The Earthy warns us not to forget that problems will not solve themselves. Running away is not the answer. Instead take the communication advice from The Earthy and try to fix your problems with words. If the situation cannot be fixed, try to come to a conclusion or have closure. If something needs to be said, say it.

Example:

My spouse has becoming very distant lately. He/She doesn't seem interested in me anymore. What can I do about it?

The Earthy recommends that you sit down with your spouse and tell him/her about your concerns with your relationship. She (the card) wants you to honestly tell your loved one that you feel like a rock has become stuck in between you two. Listen to what they have to say and give them honest feedback.

If they that it's nothing, don't try to force it out of them. Instead tell them that if they ever want to talk about something, you'll always be there to listen. Maybe he/she has difficulty expressing their thoughts which in turn can make it feel as if they're distancing themselves from you.